In response to “The Evils of Womankind,” I received the following comment:
Derek wrote…
Men cheat more often than woman. Now, consider substance abuse. Men are much more likely to be substance abusers than women. Collectively, these are two of the leading reasons given for divorce. Substance abuse is cited in roughly a third of divorces. Infidelity accounts for a similar figure, although some suggest that it is much higher.
…with no sources or data or citations given whatsoever.
It turns out that I’m not the only one who has received this fairly common criticism.
Every statistic shows that men cheat more than women.
In anonymous studies, women report being cheated on more than men and when asked if they’ve ever cheated, more men say they’ve cheated that women do. People try to refute this by saying that women are just lying, but all of the research that we have on lying indicates that men are also more likely to lie than women are.
When asked if they’ve ever slept with someone who’s in a relationship, women report higher instances of being the ‘other woman’ than men report being the ‘other man’.
And then we have studies that show that when it comes to ‘mate poaching’ (someone intentionally pursuing a relationship with a person who’s already in a relationship) women have far more success than men do.
This is made even more wild by the fact that women have far, far more opportunities to cheat than men do, and men are still cheating more.
I don’t often bother to cite these statistics because it’s not debated at a serious factual level. I’ve never even seen any statistics—other than a few highly biased individual anecdotes—that would lead me to question my belief. It’s so universally understood that men cheat more than women, they lie more than women, and they are more prone than woman to substance abuse.
The data is so overwhelming that it’s basically this (yes, I see the irony of the bad data):
It’s really not that hard to find a wide range of sources for the statistics that support the claims that I’ve made. I’ve referenced some in the past and I have others sitting in my blog’s draft folder waiting for that one day when I’ll write an article (or two) about them. Unless one isn’t trying very hard, it shouldn’t be difficult to find many different sources that show that men cheat more often than women. Nobody should be demanding evidence for what is plainly plain.
It isn’t sufficient for a critic to refute just one study for bad design or being otherwise incorrect. No, instead one has to claim that the entire enterprise is false: all the studies and evidence are wrong. But, if that is truly the case (and some believe it is), then citing individual studies is really quite pointless. So, while I might accept the premise that Science itself is utterly corrupted and unreliable no matter how unanimous it appears to be, what I can’t do is embrace the category error by taking seriously the refutation of individual studies when the issue is systematic to Science itself.
…with no sources or data or citations given whatsoever.
ROISSY & GBFM have had the market corned on sources,data & evidence since April 9th ’07 and WE know why certain ”MEN” have wimminz who cheat ALL the time too & hence think wimminz cheat more!
https://heartiste.org/2012/01/11/why-and-when-women-cheat/
Why, And When, Women Cheat
Jan 11th, 2012 by CH
Alternate title for this post:
Game and science: Deeply in love!
Once more, from one of my favorite blogs, a study which catalogs the reasons women (and men) cheat, and confirms a few core Chateau concepts as well. None of the study results will be a surprise to regular readers.
We’ll compare the study’s conclusions to claims previously made on this blog. The first one is a doozy, as it validates the very foundation of game and male-female sexual dynamics as elucidated by yours truly.
1) Women who wear the pants in the relationship are more likely to cheat:
The imbalance of power in the primary relationship has been associated with infidelity. Edwards and Booth (1976) found that wives who reported that they “get their way” more often during disagreements were also more likely to have extramarital sexual involvements.
There ya go, fellas. If you’re a beta with your girlfriend or wife, you’re increasing your odds that your “better half” will surreptitiously spread her legs for the veiny c@cks of strange men. And she will orgasm with them. Oh yes, she will orgasm. Hard, powerfully, sanctifyingly and pleasurably.
There are only two paths you can take to avoid that nightmare — the path of celibacy or the path of alpha. Which one sounds more fun?
Beta males cede disagreements with women all the time. It’s their knee-jerk response anytime a vagina talks to them. But women HATE HATE HATE that mincing sycophancy. A woman CRAVES the dominance of the alpha male who won’t take her sh!t and who will get HIS way more often than not. Beta males, slaves to their fear of loss, cringe at the thought of sticking up for themselves against women who hold the power of p@ssy over them, but that is exactly what the women in their lives want them to do.
As with all infinite truths, this one was nailed Luther-like to the Chateau doors a long time ago:
This is a revelation about the female mind that escapes the logical thinking of so many men — why would a woman want to be with a man like Cashmoney? Why would any woman willingly offer herself as a rentable hole to a man hawking her goods to streetside bidders? Because women want to submit to a powerful man. Whether that power comes in the form of a crooning emo rock star, a CEO, or a pimp daddy with fists of fury doesn’t matter. All that matters is the male power, and the tingly feeling of submitting – wholly, completely – to that power. Every woman, deep DEEP inside, wants to be “daddy’s little girl”.
All healthy primary relationships have an imbalance of power. But that imbalance needs to go one-way only — in the direction of the man wielding most of the power. The further the relationship veers from that ideal — that is, the closer it gets to equality and beyond into the horrid realm of the woman being more powerful — the greater the likelihood the woman will cheat, her heart filling with incoherent, growing contempt for her pussified emasculated lover.
The feminist battle cry for women to take up paychecks and “bring home the bacon” has been nothing short of a genitalcidal campaign against the sexual and romantic desires of beta males. Women who follow the feminist agenda of empowerment are consigning themselves to a smaller dating pool, and broken marriages, because they have turned their backs on their true natures — their will to submit.
2) An imbalance in education increases the chance of cheating:
…in a large U.S. national study of dating, cohabiting, and married women, Forste and Tanfer (1996) found that women who were more educated than their husbands were more likely to engage in sexual infidelity; but if the husband was more educated than the wife, she was less likely to philander. Level of education relative to that of the partner appears to be more important than absolute level of education.
Education is a form of power. Women who have more education — i.e. more power — than their male lovers are more likely to cheat on them. Conversely, when the man is more educated than the woman, she does not feel the stirrings of infidelity as strongly. Male power is a female fidelity guarantee. Men would be wise to focus on somewhat less educated women than themselves for marriage prospects. Women who have marriage in mind would be wise to avoid lengthy educational commitments. Again, the Chateau was on top of this a while ago.
3) Jobs have a lot to do with whether people have an affair:
Individuals who work outside the home while their partners remain in the home also express higher rates of extramarital sexual involvement (Atkins et al., 2001), perhaps because the work environment provides the opportunity and time to get to know coworkers (Treas & Giesen, 2000). In clinical samples, 46% to 62% of individuals reported that they met their extramarital sexual partner at work (Glass, 2003; Wiggins & Lederer, 1984). The likelihood of extramarital involvement is also related to the degree to which an individual’s job involves touching clients, discussing personal concerns with colleagues or clients, or working alone with co-workers (Treas & Giesen, 2000).
If you are a stay-at-home dad and your wife works outside the home as a personal trainer for rich businessmen, you may as well start ordering the paternity testing kits now and practice your nighttime cheek swabbing technique.
4) The timing of infidelity is predictable:
Among married women, the likelihood of extramarital involvement peaks in the seventh year of marriage, then declines; but among married men, the likelihood of extramarital involvement decreases over time until the eighteenth year of matrimony, after which the likelihood of extramarital involvement increases (Liu, 2000). Similarly, in a sample of couples in therapy for infidelity, sexual infidelity first occurred after an average of seven years of marriage (Wiggins & Lederer, 1984). Lawson and Samson (1988) reported, however, that the length of marriage prior to initial sexual infidelity is decreasing with younger cohorts. Certain developmental stages in a marriage, including pregnancy and the months following the birth of a child, are also high risk times for infidelity among males (Allen & Baucom, 2001; Brown, 1991; Whisman et al., 2007).
Don’t forget that women are also more likely to cheat when they’re ovulating. So if you just celebrated your seven-year wedding anniversary, and it’s two weeks past your wife’s menstruation, you need to hire a private detective as a gift to yourself.
Interestingly, but not surprisingly, younger marriages experience initial infidelity sooner than older marriages. The explanation is simple: younger wives are hotter than older wives, so they have more options in the sexual market. And since marriage is no escape from the sexual market, it makes perfect sense that infidelity is a more urgent risk with a younger wife.
The study also confirms some age-old wisdom that men are less trustworthy when their wives are pregnant or nursing. It’s the old “cold feet” syndrome that pushes men into the arms of mistresses who aren’t burdened with child, aka duties and responsibilities.
5) Most men that cheat claim to have a happy marriage:
…regardless of the many correlations between relationship dissatisfaction and adultery, Glass and Wright (1985) reported that among individuals engaging in infidelity, 56% of men and 34% of women rate their marriage as “happy” or “very happy.”
This doesn’t have anything to do with women cheating, but I thought it worthwhile to mention because it confirms yet another Chateau assertion: that men are capable of fucking more than one woman concurrently without losing that loving feeling for any one of them. Women, in contrast, tend to have to fall out of love with their man before they can comfortably move on to fucking another man. As the study shows, more cheating husbands than cheating wives are still in love with their spouses and thus sincere when they say that their marriages are happy.
There is a big sex difference at work behind this statistic. Men cheat because they desire a variety of pussy. Women cheat because they are unhappy with their primary partner. So for a woman, a necessary ingredient has to be that her current lover is not fulfilling her in some important way. But for a man, dissatisfaction with his current lover is not necessary as a springboard to cheat. Men are prone to cheat if the opportunity, and the guarantee of secrecy, are strong enough enticements, regardless of their love for their wives or girlfriends. That is why an unfaithful alpha husband is less likely to disrupt a marriage, while an unfaithful wife is more likely to end it all in divorce.
So, to recap, here is what you need to know to prevent your woman from cheating on you:
1. Learn game and become the alpha male that women need.
2. Do not allow your woman to wear the pants, unless it is in relation to some trivial point of contention that you let her win to demonstrate your big-heartedness & coxness.
3. Be more educated than your woman.
4. Do not, under any circumstances, spend time as a stay-at-home dad.
5. If your wife works, make sure it is in an occupation requiring little travel, where she will be confined to a sterile office surrounded by women and beta males. Any job where a massage table is involved is an example of a job you don’t want her to have.
6. Act a little more a-hole-ish and unpredictable when your marriage approaches the seven year mark. Or when she’s approaching her monthly ovulation.
7. Failing all of the above, cheat first. She will smell it on you, and her love will grow in proportion to her fear of losing you.
BUT WAIT there’s MORE from a ultra-quiet fellow that has been ”redpill” for nearly 5 decades now!:
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lzozozlzozozlzozo on January 11, 2012 at 12:45 pm
ummmm, why would a man
want to marry a woman
who worked for other men?
duh!!! doyoyoyoydodydoyodydyo!!!
lzozoozolz
is da bible it states:
13 And the LORD God said unto the woman, What [is] this [that] thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat.
14 And the LORD God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou [art] cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life:
15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.
16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
so like if your wife is working for other men when she should be maing you tuna sadnwhiches and tacos letting you lick her tuna taco and splloge in it, wtf is she doing in your house, beta buttboy? zozozozo
Be Booty Call Not Beta BF/ Husband 1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhMtDXkHD0Y
Two and a Half Men | Alan’s Booty Call
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llzozozlzozozozozzo on January 12, 2012 at 11:10 am
i rememebr at college when they would teach us freshsman year how to take buttcockings with the proper lube so dat dbernaken tdea central bankers could deosul our future wives by reaching deeb into thereir anal cavities like tucker max rhyems iwth goldman sax who was hired hundered of thousands of fiat dolarz for buttocking girls and filming it without their concntehnet as been bernake rhymes with spank me lzozlzlzoz
for scientsistc sicene hath shown
there id a is a direct correltation
between a owmen woman having gotten buttocked in colege
and a woman
buttcocking her future husband in divroce court for alimonies
which she hand delivers to ben bernenake
who gives her a cut
so she can go back
to da assocking da bernake coprate state
introduced her to in college
when tucker max hyrheyems iwth godlmans sax
buttcockced her
and taped it
in
secret
lzozlozz
againg beoonc neocon womenz with dried up dusty ginas see buttcocking for fun and profit and hroic zlzoozzoo heroic and send the buttcockcis=s=e=e=ss to hccukccocockt eh wolrlld zlozzlzl
Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM)on January 11, 2012 at 2:01 pm
my lostass cockas neez some physical ptherapies therapies lzllzlzozozlozlz so whhyile she is paying off her bernanke loans and working for other men instead of raising your kids which aren’t ven yours, perhaps she can rub one out ofr me just one? i mean it’s not like i am eve n the dude her got here when she was younger hotter tighter and thritey puounds lighter for free lzozlzlzlozozozl so why can’t ha i have a piece is everyone else and epxiecally bernake is getting a piece while tucker max rhyems iwth godlmans sax buttehxed her onin college where she was pretending to gain gbfm knowledhege >? lzozlzlzol
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Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM)on January 11, 2012 at 3:08 pm
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also, i don’t mind sharin if you don’t mind goig secondz lzollzzolzolz
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Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM)on January 11, 2012 at 3:05 pm
lozozlzozoz you said “father” lzozlzlzlzo
“I see most of this as simple common sense – women want what they had (or desired) when they were growing up with a father, ”
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all da benanrke butthex ritalin adderoll snoop dogg pot shiznit be goin to your head
father
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Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM)on January 11, 2012 at 3:19 pm
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get with the buttcocking asscocking bernifiying program dude!! lzozlzoz
fiat dollaz replaced da fathas
so dat little girls are rased sluttier giving more of their buttier to da asscocking nuttier so he can crack a nut blow a nut on da ho ya know lzozlzlzozozo
and so dat little boyz can be crimilialized for being boyz and drugged up and dubbed down in da bernake fiat fmeinsst stsshcools zlozlzol which deny da boyyz their ture fatherz true fatzherz zlzolzlozozo odeyssues like the flase suitors denied telemeachus his father odysseus in homer’s odyssey tehy deny us our teur fathes THE GREAT BOOKS FOR MEN!! lzzozlzl
fatehrz zlozzlloz
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Great Books For Men GreatBooksForMen GBFM (TM) GB4M (TM) GR8BOOKS4MEN (TM)on January 12, 2012 at 11:31 am
lozozlzlozozo yah! i rapped about this in my hit rap one cock rule:
“one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no beats fool i ain’t no beta tool
over vampires and werewolfe you ginas all drool
letting their cocks touch your deep down stool
then you blame the betas in school
and transfer wealth for the bernanke gene pool
jonah goldberg sends our alphas 2 die on foreign shores
stuffing his face with dc pizza as they die in fiat wars
neocon womenz repeating butthexers lies in their mags
even after menopause and no need for da ragz
telling young chickas to lust after vampires
as they build their fiat empires”
lzozozlzoozzl here it is in all its brialaliaiance!!!
hey yo!! let’s teach these douches somethin ’bout nbein a man yo!
throw a beat over this way.
yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo
now hit it!
one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no beta fool i ain’t no beta tool
about another cock ya make me think
i’m gone, yo bitch,
let the betas buy yas yer next drink
one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no beats fool i ain’t no beta tool
over vampires and werewolfe you ginas all drool
letting their cocks touch your deep down stool
then you blame the betas in school
and transfer wealth for the bernanke gene pool
jonah goldberg sends our alphas 2 die on foreign shores
stuffing his face with dc pizza as they die in fiat wars
neocon womenz repeating butthexers lies in their mags
even after menopause and no need for da ragz
telling young chickas to lust after vampires
as they build their fiat empires
one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no fool i ain’t no tool
about another cock ya make me think
i’m gone, yo bitch,
let the betas buy yas yer next drink
let the betas pay to raise your bastard kids
let the betas sign teh fiat masters marriage contracts
theft in fiat inflation is hid
as they swing their bankrupting axe
i don’t care what last night u did,
ever since i kicked ya gina out, i been relaxed.
as they promote butthex across the land
ripping out fetuses from parenthood planned
as fathers form teh homes the neocons ban
the atalnatic authoresses just don’t undertsand
but when chix wakes up and her butt is sore
it’s not my fault no–it’s cause she’s a whore
as the fiat masters desoul women with butthex cock
teach them to transfer wealth with pre-teen strumpet rock
one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no fool i ain’t no tool
about another cock ya make me think
i’m gone, yo bitch,
let the betas buy yas yer next drink
womenz womenz bernanke took advanatge of you
you wasted your best years on vampires and werewolves
and now you cry your tears cause of your sore anus
stamp your little feet saying, “you betas must pay for this!!!”
and aging neocon women promoting butthexing vampires
teacxhing women to lust after the undead
as the neocons suck the western world dry
bankrupting it all,m enlsaving it debt
while selfish womenz at the atalnatic monthly
cry cry cry
cry cry cry
not for you or me
but for themselves
not for the 50,000,000 aborted souls
but for their dried up ginas and sore assholes
so many chances they had to marry a nice guy
but he left her dry
so whe butthexed with the asshole
and now see her cry
and wonder why
and transofrm the entire univeristy
into a program to further the fiat lie
to transfer wealth and wage war and death
to about fifty million more
and redefine fifty cocks in her ass as empowered
and not a whore
all together now!
lzozllzzl lozlzlz zlozozoz
lozlzl lzozozlz ozlzooz zlo9oo
lozlzlz ozlzoozl ozlzlzoz lzozlz zlzoz zlzozzlozlzozlo
one cock rule one cock rule
i ain’t no fool i ain’t no tool
about another cock ya make me think
i’m gone, yo bitch,
let the betas buy yas yer next drink
alreayd seen yer pink stink
bent ya over the sink
and howscomes the bankers southpark never does satarize
because everything is fair game–truth love honor–excpet for fiat butthexing lies.
all together now!
lzozllzzl lozlzlz zlozozoz
lozlzl lzozozlz ozlzooz zlo9oo
lozlzlz ozlzoozl ozlzlzoz lzozlz zlzoz zlzozzlozlzozlo
AND THREE COCK RULE:
^^^^ to the 24 for or so tardbetadouches who voted my “one cock rule” rap down
lozlzlzlzlozzllzlzlzlz
what do ya want?
a two cock rule rap?
or three cock rule?
three cock rule, three cock rule,
i’m a beta herb my own cock won’t do
i need a chick to cuckold me
i need a chick on me to pee
three cock rule, three cock rule,
i love being the greater fool
one cock in her mouth, one in her anus,
i keep mine in my pants,
and pay her bills and rent and fare for da bus.
so she can club and grind, on denim cocks dance.
three cock rule, three cock rule,
i treat my lady like a nice guy,
give her chivarly while with 2 others she doth lie,
three cock rule, three cock rule,
while your cock doth touch her stool,
i play videogames @ home in my single mom’s basement,
as teh fed fianance feminsits studies @ school,
teaching her to love and bail out the butthexers,
to persucte me 4 letting her live 4 free,
while she tickles drummer/druggie cock until it goes
splooge splooge splooge! tee hee tee hee!
three cock rule, three cock rule,
i’m the beta herb, teh cuckholded fool,
i respect her, keep my cock in my pants,
fund her with other cocks to dance.
lozlzlzlzl
or would u betaherbs prefer a five cock rule rap! omg i bet someofya would like dat! lzozl
lzozozozo
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John Norman Howardon January 12, 2012 at 1:40 pm
Hmmm…. I used to think I hated rap… now I’m not so sure.
/gbfm… converting the skeptical, one post at a time